One of my favorite things to be in life is a dad. That is one of the reasons I call this blog Dad Against Cancer. They may not believe it, but almost everything I do is to somehow make their life better. Part of my motivation to kick the cancer out of my body is so I can keep spending time with my boys and the wife. I have a feeling they want to keep me around for a while as well. In this post I will highlight a few ways the boys have stepped up to help me get through chemo.
First and foremost the boys have adjusted their home life to accommodate my needs. The boys wash their hands on a regular basis and use hand sanitizer to ensure I don’t catch a nasty virus when my immune system is low. This may seem like a small thing. But it can sometimes be a pain to get kids to do things like wash hands. The boys now do this without even being told. If they do forget and the wife or I have to remind them, they do it without a huff. Little things like that show they are taking my health serious.
Another thing done by the two younger boys, Lawson and Ashton, is to open doors for me in public. When we go out in public I try to avoid touching doors or anything that a lot of other people may have touched. Yes I do keep hand sanitizer with me, but it is much easier to just avoid touching things when the boys are helping out. In the few times we have gone shopping while I’ve been on chemo, the boys will push the cart and load it up with what I tell them. They even somehow have found a way to do this without fighting or hurting each other with the cart (well mostly, they are boys after all).
Over Christmas break my oldest son really stepped up. He is now back from college and has been transporting his younger brothers to school, basketball practice, band practice, and various other things. These are activities I love to do myself. But the last two rounds of chemo really brought me down physically. Dustin stepping up to cover for me helps more than he will ever know. During all this he also made sure I was fed. I am very proud of that young man!
There are many other things the boys have done to help me out. But I think the above examples show some of what kids of cancer patients have to do. I am dang proud of those three boys and hope to be around for many years so I can meet and be proud of their children some day.