My wife fears more for my health

3d illustration of a virus – medical concept

The big news in the world right now is the Coronavirus outbreak. You can’t turn on the news or look on social media without hearing about it. Lately, I’ve had conversations with people asking if I feared the Coronavirus because I am currently going through maintenance infusions every eight weeks. No, I’m not afraid of the virus. But I do believe my wife is.

Why I’m not afraid of things like the Coronavirus

I live in a rural portion of a rural state. There isn’t a lot of people that live in Mina, SD. Yes, I work in Aberdeen, which is a much bigger city. But Aberdeen itself is pretty much in the middle of nowhere. Is it possible for something like the Coronavirus to make its way here? Yes, it is possible. But right now, I would instead prefer to focus on living life. I will deal with anything like the Coronavirus when and if it makes its way here.

Yes, my immune system does dive every eight weeks after getting my Rituximab infusion. But it doesn’t go down near as much as when I was getting full-blown chemotherapy infusions. Actually, I’m more nervous about my memory issues than I am about a compromised immune system.

My wife does worry about viruses

Now my wife has a different feeling about germs. She has become very protective of my health and makes sure anyone with a contagious illness stays away from me. When this whole cancer thing started, she thought I was going to die (to be fair, I thought the same thing). I have a feeling she believes that if I were to catch a virus or disease, it would put my life in danger.

I think sometimes cancer caregivers, such as my wife, actually go through a lot more stress about health than those of us with cancer. My wife was the one to make sure I had masks and hand sanitizer while I went through chemo. She is also the one that made sure anyone that was sick stayed away from me. Even now, if someone is sick at the office, she reminds them my immune system is not what it should be. I know she has taken care of a lot of little details behind the scenes to keep sick people away from me. Its almost like she has made it her mission to keep from getting sick ever again.

Last year there were some cases of whooping cough going through the area. I remember my wife making sure anyone with a cough stayed away from me. Actually, my youngest boys had a cough at the time, and they stayed away from me until they tested negative for whooping cough.

Having said all that, I do appreciate her looking out for me. Having a caregiver when going through cancer helps with the whole experience. And having a caregiver with so much love makes it even better to make it as a cancer survivor.

Life is too short to worry

As I wrap up this post, I can’t help but think of the old saying that life is too short to worry about what can’t be controlled. I think that sums up what I think of things like the Coronavirus. Yes, if it does come to my area, I probably will take precautions. But for now, I’ll live life as I want and make sure my wonderful wife knows she is appreciated.

Song of the day: What a Wonderful World

It seems to me people spend too much time worrying about what is wrong with the world. War, pandemics, politics. If more people focused on how great this world is how to make it better then… well I’ll let the great Satchmo explain it:

Bonus Song: Always Look On the Bright Side of Life

Since I’m on a positive song kick, I thought this classic track from Monty Python was in order.

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